This month I celebrated three years of retirement!!! Over thirteen years ago I was diagnosed with a very advanced and aggressive breast cancer and told the “odds were not in my favor.” Cancer Survivor. As I went through nine months of treatment, my prayer was “Dear Lord, please let me live until I can retire and give me three years of retirement to enjoy with my husband.”
On January 3 of this year, I reached that milestone. I have enjoyed three wonderful years of retirement. My husband and I have been able to travel to the east coast visiting the homes of Presidents Jefferson, Madison and Monroe as well as the Confederate States White House in Richmond. We followed the Morman Trail out west and visited the Outer Banks of North Carolina with our daughter and her husband.
I have enjoyed days of working in our hosta garden, reading all the books I brought when I was working but never had time to read and playing countless games of Scrabble with my husband. We share an addiction to the game. Confessions of a Scrabble Addict!
My prayer was answered and I have had these past three years. Each day that I live beyond January 3 is like a priceless gift – a gift “above and beyond.” I have no idea how much further this “journey’ will take me.
Will I live to be 102?
Will this be the last year of my life?
Will I remain cancer-free and healthy?
Will some day the cancer appear again somewhere in my body?
But I have determined to not worry about tomorrow – but just enjoy today! I cannot change the past – I cannot control the future. But I can enjoy every moment of today!
“It is not required that we know all of the details about every stretch of the river. Indeed, were we to know, it would not be an adventure, and I wonder if there would be much point in the journey.”
― Jeffrey R. Anderson
So come on Life!
I’m looking forward to whatever God has in store for me tomorrow!!!!!!
My husband and I continue our Scrabble addiction (Confessions of a Scrabble Addict). We played 26 games in January and ended in a tie – 13 games each. For February we have played a game every day (it’s been bitter cold outside – so what can you do?) and we are still tied at 14 games each. Guess this means we are both equally smart — or equally dull-witted.
Thank you Mr. Butts!
It’s interesting to me to learn that the game of Scrabble was invented during the Great Depression. With no work and time on his hands, architect Alfred Mosher Butts decided to do something productive – and he invented the board game of Scrabble. His goal was to combine the word skills of crossword puzzles (in fact, he first named the game Criss-Cross Words) with the element of chance.
To determine how many of each letter to use in the game and what point value to give them, he studied the front page of The New York Times. His study found that we use vowels more than consonants, and the vowel “E” is the most frequently used vowel.
Mr. Butt originally made the board and tiles himself and gave them to family and friends for their entertainment. His attempts to interest games manufacturers led nowhere. In 1948 one of the couples who had the Criss-Cross Words game convinced Mr. Butts to let them manufacture and market the game – changing the name to Scrabble.
Mr. and Mrs. Brunot received a trademark for the name “Scrabble” in 1948 and, like many new ventures, lost money in 1949 – the first year of production.
The story is (not able to confirm if true) that the president of Macy’s came across the game while on vacation in the early 1950’s and ordered some for his store. Soon, it was a hit with everyone.
Today it is estimated that over 35 million people play Scrabble. It is one of the favorite on-line games.
So – after researching the game, I find that I do not have to be ashamed of my addition. Seems I’m not alone!
So – on we go to March. Questions remain:
How many games will we play in the month of March?
As warm weather returns, will our addiction ease up – or will our rose and hosta garden suffer from neglect as we continue our obsession with the game?
Will we be able to leave it behind when we go on vacation this summer?
I must confess that I am constantly looking for new words to use in a game. When I read a book I am on the outlook for new words. As I glance through a magazine, my eyes just seem to latch on to new words in the articles or the advertisements.
During the commercials when I watch TV or wait at a restaurant for my food – or any other time I find myself waiting – I often write out a long word or a greeting such as “Merry Christmas” – then see how many words I can make from the longer word or greeting. (My husband gets tired of finding these lists of words everywhere – in the desk drawer where we keep our mail – on the computer desk – on the end table next to my recliner. I tell him I will stop – but I can’t seem to help myself.)
I actually “read” the dictionary looking for new words.
All my other hobbies take a back seat to the game – reading, writing, watching TV. None of these are as important as getting my husband to join me in a game of scrabble.
I need help! But……..
My husband is an addict too!
He also reads the dictionary learning new words. He loves to take words he already knows and search to see how the plural or past tense would be spelled.
He recently started making a list of all the new words we find and use in our games.
Our daughter thinks we are nuts!
We take our Scrabble games seriously. We have kept score of every game we have played since 2008. Even the games we play with family or friends is entered in our book.
We may have gone too far this winter!
With the cold weather we have been indoors more than usual the past few weeks and I think our Scrabble addiction has gotten out of hand. My husband is now keeping a record of our average scores for each month. We are in a serious contest to see who wins the most games for each month.
We play only Super Scrabble!
The regular size Scrabble board is 15″ x 15″ but we use the larger Super Scrabble board. It is 21″ x 21″, has quadruple letters and words and twice the number of tiles as the regular Scrabble board. Since we constantly try to increase our scores and take this so seriously, our games can last for two to three hours. (But we are retired, it is cold outside, so who cares?)
Come on spring!
We really need warm weather to return so that we can regain some sanity and move on to other interests before our addiction overtakes us completely.
If you are addicted to Scrabble too, let me know. We could start a Scrabble Anonymous Club.